Ten things I have learned since becoming a parent

Parenthood, especially as a single parent, is an ongoing adventure. I began this journey when I was only 21, not really knowing what to expect and feeling pretty nervous about it. Now, looking back at everything, I’ve picked up some really important lessons that I believe could resonate with other parents out there.

1. Boundaries Matter: Confronting a demanding child in a store is challenging. My strategy: prep them before entering, outlining expectations, and the resulting consequences.

2. Early Warning Signs: Recognizing signs of hyperactivity in my boys allows me to intervene before they get carried away, especially in large gatherings.

3. Cautious with Attachments: Children readily bond with new people in your life. Introducing them cautiously is essential to prevent complications.

4. Mind Your Words: Kids absorb everything. Refrain from negative comments about others, as it can lead to unforeseen problems.

5. Avoid Taking Sides: When siblings quarrel, resist picking sides. Instead, give both a timeout, stressing their shared involvement.

6. Embrace Bumps and Bruises: Children are resilient. Minor accidents are part of their growth journey, teaching them important lessons.

7. Time Perception: Children perceive time differently. Quality of time spent together outweighs quantity.

8. It’s Okay to Stumble: Perfection isn’t the goal. If I can’t take them to the park, I find alternative bonding activities.

9. Materialism Isn’t Everything: Showering kids with gifts isn’t a prerequisite for their affection. Simple, cost-free activities often hold more meaning.

10. Managing Mess: Organizing toys and teaching kids to tidy up instills a sense of responsibility and helps maintain order.

In the end

Parenting is a voyage filled with growth and enlightenment. These lessons have molded me into a better parent and a wiser individual. As fellow parents, let’s share our insights and support one another on this remarkable journey.


What do you think?

If you’re a parent, please share your thoughts or experiences in the comments; let’s continue learning from one another. Parenthood is a shared adventure, and together, we can navigate its challenges and joys.




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